So I have already dealt with what to do if you see an ex at a party, but there is an even worse scenario. When you walk into a party where you have dated half the party; ok not half the party, but at least two people.
You walk in and you see three girls you dated. What do you do? Should you say something? Do they know? Are they comparing notes about your sexual prowess?
This situation can be awkward, but you can avoid complications by playing cool. Sometimes you can watch your sexual history walk by your face. It’s ok. Just let it walk.
The more nervous and clammy you get the more people will realize that something is up. Just keep yourself together and you should be able to get through the party without inciting violence amongst your past lovers. As you freak out in your head keep everything else cool.
Also, unless your ex’s happen to be best friends they may have no idea about your promiscuous ways. So, keep your head up and avoid all talk about your love life. No one needs to know how many people you have bedded that happen to be at a specific party.
If someone does realize your sexual secret than try to contain the situation. This is a bomb that could explode in your face. Don’t let it. But if it does turn into a screaming match between, Sarah with an H and Sara without an H, run. Don’t wait for the fallout. There is no way to make the situation better. Don’t negotiate. Get out.
And don’t feel bad. It’s much easier to date friends than go outside of your social circle. So, keep it together and continue dating all your friends! Why not?
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